Pastor, Western Presbyterian Church
Washington, D.C.
July 26, 2009
Text: II Samuel 11:1-15
Every leader should read I and II Samuel as well as I and II Kings. The books contain potent case studies on leadership. They also display how woefully short of God’s leadership standards even the best leaders can fall.
Of all the stories in the succession narratives, none is more troubling than the one we read this morning. King David’s troops are on the battlefield. While the soldiers put their lives at risk for their nation, back in Jerusalem, David preys on Bathsheba, the wife of Uriah, one of his courageous soldiers.
Given the power of a king, I do not consider this sexual act consensual, as it is sometimes portrayed. It was rape. If Bathsheba had not responded to David’s lust, she would have put her own and her husband’s life at risk. She had little choice but to submit.
If we stop the story right there, we can say, “David did a horrific thing.” And if, right there, he had done the faithful thing, he would have confessed his crime and tried to make right that which he had made wrong.
“How could David have done that,” you might ask. That was David’s problem to figure out, not ours. But, with the power of a nation at his fingertips, he could have done something to make things, if not right, then better.
However, like so many people, David didn’t confess his sin. He did what we see people do all the time. He attempted to cover up his sins. In the process, he elevated his criminal acts from rape to murder.
The author of II Samuel makes no mistake where his loyalties lie in his telling of the tale. The author portrays Uriah as pure and self-sacrificing; everything David isn’t. He sees David as a criminal, Bathsheba and Uriah as victims.
After using his royal position to force himself on Bathsheba, David had a face-to-face encounter with Uriah, who had just returned from battle. He ordered the young officer to go to his home and enjoy a rest. Ignoring David’s orders, Uriah left David’s presence and slept at the entrance of the king’s house with other people in David’s service.
Hearing this, David called Uriah to him and asked him why he hadn’t gone home to Bathsheba. Uriah responded that while his fellow soldiers were camped in the fields, he could not indulge himself by eating, drinking and sleeping with his wife. Again, the author draws a stark, damning contrast between David’s and Uriah’s approach to responsibility.
David did some despicable things. But he also recognized goodness and truth when he saw it. He surely must have recognized the contrast between his own and Uriah’s behavior: one a man of honor; one a man of dishonor. Looking at Uriah noble approach to life, David’s soul must have been filled with shame.
One of the reasons Jesus was so insistent that we confess our sins was his awareness of the power of shame. Shame can cause us to do things that are worse than the original sin. Unrepentant sin begets guilt which, in turn, breeds shame.
Not being able to live with his shame and guilt, David decided to eradicate it by eliminating its source: Uriah. To do so, he turned to Joab, the quintessential hatchet man who did a lot of David’s dirty work. On David’s orders, Joab pulled back his troops in the heat of a battle, leaving Uriah unprotected, alone to fend for himself. The source of David’s guilt died as he lived: with courage and honor.
Did this act eliminate David’s guilt? I doubt it. Despite his king-size capacity for sin, David also had a powerful relationship with God. My guess is that David took his guilt with him to the grave.
In my lifetime, I have seen variations of this story played out over and again on our national stage. Lyndon Baines Johnson couldn’t admit he made a mistake by dramatically expanding the Vietnam War. And so he continued to expand it. Richard Nixon couldn’t admit he made a mistake by authorizing a minor burglary and so he tried to cover it up. George Bush couldn’t admit he made a mistake by invading Iraq and so he followed LBJ’s example and poured gasoline on a raging fire.
I fear our leaders are compounding our national mistakes again. When the current economic crisis broke last fall, there were daily stories about massive layoffs. It was not unusual to read of tens of thousands of jobs being terminated. The Bush administration seemingly ignored the job losses, focusing its attention instead on the crisis in the financial industry.
Make no mistake about it, the financial system is incredibly important. But if people don’t have jobs, they can’t pay off loans, can’t buy things to stimulate the economy, can’t save and invest money. All of these are devastating to the health of the financial system.
As a result of our lack of attention to creating jobs, the number of homeless families nationwide has skyrocketed. Foreclosures have become commonplace, even in wealthiest of neighborhoods. The ability of people losing jobs to find new jobs, even much lower paying jobs, has become close to impossible. People graduating from our universities and grad schools find themselves in limbo, unable to employ their talents in the marketplace.
Are Barack Obama and Congress repeating, even compounding the mistakes of the Bush Administration? Certainly, they are dealing with many major issues: two wars, health care, the financial and auto industries, and rebuilding America’s image abroad. However, as they do so, a growing number of Americans are unable to find work.
As Calvinists, we have a theological reason to place job creation at the top of the national agenda. We view work not just as a paycheck but as redemptive. Work is a primary way in which we serve God and neighbor. Work creates meaning and purpose in our lives.
There is a devastating, crippling ripple effect of large numbers of unemployed people—economically, socially, spiritually. Therefore, we cannot accept the idea that jobs are coming somewhere down the line. People need work now.
Creating jobs doesn’t require a lot of imagination. Create an Art Corps and put artists to work. Expand a program such as Teach America and put more people to work teaching children. Create a Forestation Program and employ people planting trees.
Frankly, how it gets done isn’t as important as getting it done. We need to create jobs now, not six, nine or twelve months from now.
We made a mistake in enabling this crisis to develop. We made another mistake in not immediately addressing the loss of jobs it created. Let us not now compound the mess by allowing it to draw us away from the obvious need to create hundreds of thousands of jobs.
But, of course, politicians are not the only people who can make a bad situation worse. At some point or another, you and I have certainly proven that we are perfectly capable of doing it ourselves. Each of us has made a bad situation worse.
I can’t count the number of people I have known who have ended one unfulfilling, unhealthy romantic relationship only to enter another even worse relationship. Having followed their hormones rather than their heads and hearts, they quickly find themselves wanting out of the new relationship. Never having taken the time to reflect on the mistakes they made that caused the other relationship to fail, they change partners but don’t change the quality of their lives.
I can’t count the number of people I have known who have jumped out of one bad work situation into another even worse one. Rushing to get away from a bad job, we rush right into a new form of negativity.
Too often in problematic situations, focused on what others have done to us, we don’t take the time required to figure out what we have done wrong. It is a cliche but also true that both parties bear some responsibility for a relationship dissolving—whether it be a work, personal or other type of relationship. This is why Jesus stressed the need for confession and accepting God’s forgiveness.
To right his wrong, at a minimum, David needed to ask Bathsheba for forgiveness. He needed to acknowledge to her and God that he had abused his power to force himself upon her. If she was unwilling to forgive him, as is probably likely, he needed to accept God’s forgiveness. If he had done so, my guess is that Uriah would have lived a long and full life. A sin would have ended as a sin rather than leading to a series of events in which a person needlessly died.
Confession and forgiveness break the chain of events in which one sinful or mistaken act leads inevitably and inexorably to another worse act. President Obama realized this fact Friday when he stepped to the podium and acknowledged that his comments regarding Professor Gates’ unjust arrest were making the situation worse. It was the kind of humble act of leadership that has been woefully missing for many, many years in the White House.
I can’t close without addressing a problem many of us have: we don’t believe that we can be forgiven. We believe God is forgiving. We just don’t believe God will forgive you and me. We have a theoretical versus an experiential understanding of the reality of God’s forgiveness.
Why are we so insistent that we can’t be forgiven? Perhaps we fear the forgiven life. Having grown used to living in the darkness of our own self-damnation, we can’t imagine what it would be like to live in the light as a forgiven person. Perhaps we think our sins are so unique, so horrible that no one, not even God, will forgive us.
In fact, I think we are simply projecting onto God our own unwillingness to forgive ourselves. We won’t forgive ourselves so we figure God won’t forgive us either. Amazing.
In today’s story, David forced himself upon a woman and killed her husband. If God can forgive him, God can’t forgive you and me? Please. We may be great sinners. But David was a world class sinner. This guy’s sins are still being studied thousands of years later.
There is a certain arrogance or hubris in our refusal to believe God will forgive us. On the cross, Jesus forgave the people who killed him. God forgave the disciples who abandoned Jesus and put them in charge of the early church. God called Paul, who had persecuted/tortured the early church, to be an evangelist. Given these and millions of other examples, it is simply crazy to think God can’t or won’t forgive us.
What have we done? Have we raped and murdered someone? If yes, God will forgive us if we ask for it. Have we spent too little time with our families? God and our families will forgive us if we ask them for it. Have we mismanaged our financial resources? If we confess it, we can start over again.
Confession is a prerequisite to New Life. But confession isn’t enough. New Life begins when we embrace God’s forgiveness. To use Paul Tillich’s language, New Life begins when we accept God’s acceptance of us.
This is where David is a positive role model. As one who sinned boldly, David also believed in his heart of hearts that God loved him. As a result, at critical moments in his life, he confessed his sins and accepted God’s forgiveness.
Most of us understand and accept Jesus’ ethical teachings. We understand and accept his worldview. But too few of us understand and accept his proclamation that God will forgive our sins—right here, right now.
Looking at my sermon title, someone this week told me that my vacation obviously had not helped me to lighten up! Fair enough. But this I know. Jesus’ message was called Good News not because of his ethics, parables or theological reflections.
It was called Good News because, embracing his message, people whose lives were filled with the bad news of their own sinfulness were able to change the direction of their lives—totally and completely. People who were icons of sinfulness became paradigms of virtue. People who were stuck in self and other destructive ruts found a constructive Way to live. People who felt damned suddenly felt loved and redeemed.
So it can be for you and me. Let us accept the Good News: in Jesus Christ, we are forgiven.News:
Let us pray: Gracious God, you offer us a New Life. The door through which we enter is confession of our sins and acceptance of your forgiveness. Help us to follow Jesus through that door to the New Life of which we all dream. In Christ’s name we pray, Amen.